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Out of nowhere, I heard whispers of WordCamp Pokhara (WCPokhara) 2025. And just like that, something stirred again. I had no plans—but this one felt like it had plans for me.

This marked my second international trip, right after WordCamp Asia, and what a ride it was! Hosted in the breathtaking lakeside city of Pokhara, Nepal—it didn’t feel like a formal event trip. It felt like a reunion of kindred spirits.

What Am I Doing Here?

Yes, that was literally the title of my talk.

As someone who calls herself a product of the WordPress community but ultimately I am an outsider in a community that’s primarily tech-driven, I felt a strong urge to voice that duality which comes both with its pros and cons. So when I had the privilege of being at both sides, why not support individuals who are in the midst too? My session was in the Macchapucchre hall at Pokhara Event Centre (remember the name till the end of this article!)*

I spoke about community, support, diversity, inclusion, and the unseen ways the community shapes us. It’s not just about us giving back—it’s also about acknowledging how much we’ve received. I also shared what we’ve been doing in the WordPress Bhopal community—because I believe growing a local community is directly tied to the broader mission of societal growth.

Many thanks to Yoast for generously supporting my journey to WCPokhara via its Yoast Diversity Fund.

Contributor Day — Where It Begins

Ever since I landed, I found myself looking for that sense of community everywhere but nah, not in my charts till the Camp. Day 1 kicked off with Contributor Day, buzzing with energy. I joined the Patterns team, and, like always, it felt grounding to sit across from passionate strangers-turned-collaborators and contribute to something bigger than ourselves. There also was a WordPress Basics workshop arranged, an energizing space for newcomers to begin their journey. Pretty thoughtful of the organisers in their scheme to build the next gen, it’s like acknowledging the younger population particularly and working for their need.

The numbers speak for themselves—678+ attendees, 35% women participation, and a speaker lineup filled mostly with women. We’re building a future that’s inclusive by default, and seeing it unfold in real-time was powerful.

What is worth mentioning? The students. So many of them! Curious minds, high on energy, and wide-eyed excitement. That is what community-building is—bridging the gap between where we are and where they want to go. WordPress gave us a platform; WordCamps like Pokhara make sure we pay it forward.

Faces Behind the Moments

WordPress events are rightly known for its networking opportunities, no doubt about it. Meeting Mumtahina Faguni and her lovely family, being introduced to Alina Kakshapati, crossing paths with Jyoti, Sapana, Prabeen, Regan, Utsav Dai, Ayush, Manjil, Sushant and so many more—each connection added a story to my journey. I clicked with Jyoti instantly, what started as a girls’ girl thing, led us to creating joyful nuisance as if we’d been best of friends for years— wonderwoman!

A long-overdue in-person meeting with Yam Chettri, who once mentored us at WP Bhopal, finally happened. And thanks to Subash Dai, I got a beautiful glimpse into his village and the landscapes beyond the Camp.

Everyone I met was so cordial, kind, and full of cheer, this is what makes WordPress more than software. It’s a movement.

Beyond the Camp

This was my first visit to Nepal, and I had the chance to explore both Kathmandu and Pokhara—each with its own flavour and stories.

We visited iconic places like Pashupatinath Temple, Swayambhunath Stupa, Boudhanath, Fewa Lake, Devi’s Fall, and a very cloudy Sunrise Point in Pokhara (sadly, no sunrise or peek of the mountain, just dramatic clouds!). Special mention to their cars!

While Pashupatinath is a marvel in scale and significance, I couldn’t help but feel a bit disappointed by its lack of upkeep. A site so historically rich and spiritually revered deserves more thoughtful maintenance. The contrast between its grandeur and the surrounding neglect was hard to ignore. It made me think about how we sometimes take our own heritage for granted, something I hope changes with time and awareness.

I also tried finding a Jain temple, there was only one in Kathmandu and none in Pokhara. I visited the one in Kathmandu during a layover, it was a two-storey building, housing both Digambar and Shwetambar shrines, one above the other. Simple, quiet, and tucked away.

Being a pure vegetarian, food was another small challenge. Compared to my experience in the Philippines, where chain restaurants were pretty thoughtful with food preferences, Nepal was trickier. For instance, I had to stop a server at my hotel from using the same tongs for non-veg and veg dishes, something that could easily go unnoticed. A small thing maybe, but for someone with my kind of dietary restrictions, it’s a big deal. My mum had insisted on packing some home-cooked food before the trip—and as always, mothers know best. Lesson learnt.

That said, we explored some great cafes too. My favourite was Pizza from Himalayan Java in Kathmandu. And next time, I‘m visit Utpala Café, run by monks. It’s on my wish list now.

When the Mountains Finally Whispered Hello

The mountains, I must say, were teasing us throughout the trip—playing hide and seek behind thick clouds and fog. We kept waiting, hoping, peeking out of windows and into skies, but Pokhara remained mostly overcast.

Then, just when we had almost given up—as we were leaving for the airport—there it was.

Annapurna. Machhapuchchhre.
Majestic. Serene. Suddenly visible like a blessing.

We spotted a glimpse from our hotel too and instantly went gaga—squealing like little kids seeing something we’d only heard about in stories. It felt like Pokhara had saved its most magical moment for the very end. A perfect, quiet farewell.

Why It Mattered

More than the schedule, the venue, or even the amazing sessions; WordCamps are about the people.

It’s the chai breaks, the impromptu laughter, the smiles exchanged between sessions that stay with you. The shared spirit of belonging. Pokhara reminded me of Bhopal in many ways, except for the mountains, of course.

This time, I wasn’t just carried by the community’s support, I felt ready to give back, to cheer others on, to help hold that space of warmth for someone else.

I didn’t go looking for a community this time. But by the end of it, I knew—I belong here.

Thank you, WordCamp Pokhara. You’ll always have a place in my heart.

Until we meet again. Lots of Maya!

If you’ve ever been in that situation, you know how frustrating, helpless, and even violated it can feel. Having a blog since I was a 9th grader, it was certainly one of the biggest fears that somebody might rob my work and name it there’s. I had a good time thinking about probable solutions to implement, including getting my poetries copyrighted by some digitial agency; only to later realise that such content is already covered under copyright. It was about credit yes, but also respect for your time, creativity, and effort.

I didn’t know better but now that I do, let’s address the elephant in the room: what can you do? How do you protect your content? Where do you report it? And most importantly: Will anyone even listen?

Let’s talk about the Digital Millennium Copyright Act (DMCA)—a powerful tool that might just be your best ally.

What is the DMCA?

The DMCA, or Digital Millennium Copyright Act, is a U.S. law passed in 1998 that gives creators a way to quickly remove copyright-infringing content from the internet—without needing to go through a full-blown legal battle.

Even though it’s a U.S. law, platforms like Instagram, YouTube, Facebook, WordPress, and major hosting providers worldwide follow DMCA protocols because they operate globally. So yes, even if you’re in India or anywhere else, you can still use the DMCA if your content is misused on a platform that complies with it. What matters is where the content is hosted, not where the copyright owner lives. Good news: most major platforms (even international ones) honour DMCA requests, even if they aren’t legally required to.

Interestingly, Indian courts have also echoed some of these protective measures. For instance, in Dept. of Electronics & IT vs Star India Pvt Ltd (2016), the Delhi High Court allowed blanket blocking of websites, not just specific URLs, to prevent piracy—something that aligns well with the DMCA’s broad takedown power. Similarly, in Kent Systems Ltd & Ors. v. Amit Kotak (2017), the court clarified that once notified, intermediaries like hosting platforms must act, reinforcing the idea of shared responsibility online.

What Does DMCA Cover?

The DMCA applies to most types of digital content, including:

• Text (blog posts, articles, eBooks, PDFs)
• Images (photos, illustrations, infographics)
• Videos (YouTube content, tutorials, reels)
• Audio and music files
• Software and code

It’s a straightforward takedown mechanism, allowing you to request the removal of stolen content from websites, search engines, or hosting servers.

Step-by-Step: What To Do If Your Content Is Stolen

1. Stay Calm and Gather Proof

Before rushing to react, take a moment. You’ll need:

• Screenshots of the stolen content
• URLs of both your original and the infringing post
• Dates showing when you published your content and when you found the infringement

This proof will be crucial if you end up filing a takedown request.

2. Look for Clear Signs of Infringement

Direct copying of text, images, or media without permission

Minor edits that don’t qualify as fair use under Section 52 of the Indian Copyright Act 1957

Removal of watermarks or attribution

Try Reaching Out First

You can politely message the infringing user or site, explaining:

• Who you are
• That you own the content
• A link to your original work
• A link to the copied version
• A deadline (like 7 days) to remove it
• That you want to resolve the issue amicably

Sometimes, this is enough. If not, move on to filing a DMCA takedown notice.

How To File a DMCA Takedown Notice

Step 1: Identify the Hosting Provider

Use tools like WhoIsHosting or HostingChecker to find where the website is hosted. If the site is behind Cloudflare, you can still submit your complaint through Cloudflare’s abuse form, and they’ll forward it.

Step 2: Draft Your Takedown Notice

There are a few basics to keep in mind while prepping your takedown notice. This includes your key information, which can be utilised if the recipient wants to contact you. Include the following:

• Your full name and contact information
• The link to your original content
• The link to the infringing content
• A Statement of Good Faith that you did not authorise this usage
• A Statement of Accuracy that confirms your claim is truthful under penalty of perjury

Step 3: Submit to the Platform

Once you’re done with all of this, it’s time to submit your complaint. Most major hosting providers and platforms have dedicated forms or email addresses specifically for this type of complaint.

• Cloudflare: Abuse Report Form
• Google Cloud Platform: Google Legal Troubleshooter
• DigitalOcean: Abuse Contact Form
• Linode: Contact Page
• Vultr: Abuse Contact

Step 4: Follow Up

Once you have submitted the complaint, wait for 3-5 business days, and if you do not receive any response, follow up. This also includes regularly checking to see if the infringing content has been removed. If the hosting provider doesn’t respond or takes too long, follow up with them or submit a complaint to search engines to have the content removed from search results.

Most takedown requests are resolved in 3–7 business days, though some platforms may take up to 30 days, especially in cases involving e-commerce. Follow up if you don’t receive a response. Even Indian courts have recognized that platforms can and should act when properly notified. In the recent X Corp v. Union of India (2023) case, the Karnataka High Court observed that entire user accounts may be blocked under Section 69a of the IT Act, similar in impact to DMCA’s wide takedown capabilities when there’s a clear violation.

Note: Keep all communications and records safely stored for future reference.

It’s also worth noting that in India, even if DMCA doesn’t directly apply, creators are not left unprotected. The Information Technology (Intermediary Guidelines and Digital Media Ethics Code) Rules, 2021, framed under the IT Act, 2000, require digital platforms (intermediaries) to act on content takedown requests within 36 hours once they receive a complaint backed by appropriate evidence.

You can also rely on the Indian Copyright Act, 1957, which grants you exclusive rights to your original work, whether it’s a photo, article, video, or design. If infringed, you’re entitled to seek civil remedies like injunctions and damages, and even criminal penalties in serious cases.

So even if you’re not using the DMCA route, Indian law offers strong protections—especially when combined with proper documentation and prompt reporting.

What If You Receive a DMCA Notice?

If you’ve been accused of infringement, don’t panic. You have three options:

Option A: Remove the Content

If you agree that it infringes someone else’s copyright, take it down.

Option B: Modify It

You can tweak the content to comply with copyright rules, like giving attribution or using less of the original.

Option C: File a Counter-Notice

If the takedown is mistaken or you believe you own the rights, submit a counter-notice.

This must include:

• Your contact details
• What was taken down and where was it
• A statement of good faith belief that it was a mistake
• Your consent to jurisdiction
• Your electronic or physical signature

Once filed, the original complainant has 10 business days to take legal action. If they don’t, your content may be restored.

In the landmark U.S. case Lenz v. Universal Music Corp. (2015), the court ruled that copyright holders must consider fair use before sending a takedown notice. This is crucial for creators using content for commentary, education, parody, or criticism.

It’s safest to wait the entire period before reinstating content, even if the takedown notice is false. However, you can still request your provider to do so depending on the details of your situation.

DMCA is not just a law, it’s a tool for creators. In a world where content spreads like wildfire, understanding your rights is more than a legal luxury, it’s a digital necessity. Whether you’re an influencer, a blogger, a designer, or a developer, don’t let content theft slide. Start small: Learn. Document. Act. And if it ever happens to you again, remember—you’re not powerless. You’re protected.

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An amazing blogpost on this subject can also be found here, by WPMU DEV.

Credits for featured Image: clicked by aag_photos, found on openverse.

I started my blogging journey almost a decade back with WordPress, and over time, I became part of the WordPress community. Since then, I’ve built at least five websites for different purposes, constantly learning along the way. What I realized, though, is that many people, even those already in the system, struggle with the basics. And that’s okay! I’ve been there too, but thankfully, I had people to support me. And I’d like to be one for you!

So if you’re from a non-tech background like me, or even if you’re tech-savvy but feeling stuck when it comes to building a portfolio website, you’re in the right place. Let’s break it down into simple steps to get your WordPress site up and running with minimal fuss.

Let’s break it down into simple steps to get your WordPress site up and running with minimal fuss.

Before We Begin: Make sure you have your domain and hosting ready. Once that’s sorted and you’ve logged into your WordPress account, we’re all set to start building!

Go to the backend of your website by adding /wp-admin to your WordPress site URL. So, if your domain is example.com, go to example.com/wp-admin and log in.

Step 1: Install Essential Plugins

To make things easier, we’ll install some essential plugins. These will help speed up the process and make customization smoother.

• Starter Templates – Provides pre-designed layouts.
• Elementor – A drag-and-drop page builder for easy design.

I personally prefer the WordPress’ built-in Gutenberg editor, if you’d like to try your hands on it, you can skip Elementor for now.

• WP Forms – A simple form builder for contact forms.
• For SEO, Yoast & RankMath are top tiers, choose any.

To install them, go to Dashboard → look left-hand side Plugins → Add New, search for each plugin, then click Install Now → Activate. Done!

Step 2: Choose a Starter Template

Building from scratch is all cool, but let’s try using the available resources first (which are fantastic & cater a variety of requirements). We’d go with a Starter Template to speed things up.

1. Go to Appearance → Starter Templates.
2. Browse and choose a portfolio template that fits your style.
3. Click Import to bring it to your site.

Some great free templates: Astra, Bravada, Kalium. Always check the live preview before selecting one.

Step 3: Customize Your Template with Gutenberg

Now, let’s make this website truly yours!

1. Go to Pages → All Pages, find your homepage, and click Edit.
2. Use blocks to add or edit content:
   • Paragraph Block for text Image Block to upload pictures
   • Tip: Upload pictures first to the media library and then select from there. This saves space and keeps your site organized. Columns Block to create layouts
   • Tip: If you want to create a collage or display multiple images together, first add a column block, then insert 2–3 columns inside it and upload images. This simple hack makes it easier to align images, adjust background colors, and experiment with different layouts. Cover Block for stylish hero sections
3. Want to add a new section? Click the ‘+’ icon, choose a block, and start designing!
4. To add anchor links (e.g., ‘About’ or ‘Contact’), go to the Advanced settings of a block and enter a unique HTML anchor.
   • Tip: To add an anchor link for “About,” select the heading block, go to Advanced settings, and enter about-section in the HTML Anchor field. Then, link any button or text to #about-section, and clicking it will scroll to that section instantly!

Resources

Step 4: Add Key Features

A strong portfolio website isn’t just about design, it should showcase your work and make it easy to connect with you. Here’s what you need:

• About Page: Give an overview of who you are, what you’re looking for, and what visitors can expect from your website.
• Portfolio Section: Showcase your work with images, descriptions, or case studies.
• Services Section: List your services so visitors know exactly how you can help them.
• Client Testimonials: To add social proof, use the Testimonial block (from Essential Addons for Gutenberg) or a simple text block.
• Contact Form: Use WPForms to add a contact form in just a few clicks.
• Call to Action: Add a button block that links to your email, resume, or social media profiles.

Tip: When creating a services section, use icon blocks or columns to neatly display different offerings. This improves readability and keeps things visually appealing.

Tip: For testimonials, keep them short and impactful. If possible, add a small image of the client for credibility.

Step 5: Final Touches & Publishing

See the logo on this website’s tab? That’s called a favicon! Here’s how to add it, along with some final tweaks to your site’s branding.

I used frontend customization for all of the following. To do this, simply go to the uppermost layer on the dashboard, click Visit Site, and then hit Customize to start making changes. But if you’d prefer the backend way, follow these steps:

1. Adding a Logo & Website Icon (Favicon)

1. Go to Appearance → Customize → Site Identity.
2. Upload your logo and site icon (favicon).
3. Click Publish to save changes.
   A favicon is a small icon that appears in the browser tab beside your website name!

2. Editing Header & Footer

Header:

• Go to Appearance → Customize → Header (or Site Editor → Header if using a block theme).
• Edit your menu, logo, and header layout as needed.

Footer:

• Navigate to Appearance → Customize → Footer (or Site Editor → Footer).
• Add copyright text, social links, or a call-to-action.

If you’re using a block theme, you can edit both the header and footer directly in the Site Editor using blocks!

3. Click Preview to check for:

• Uniform font sizes and colors
• Buttons and links working properly
• Responsive design (looks good on mobile too!)

Once happy, click Publish!

Need to update something later? No worries! Just go back to the Dashboard → Edit → Update whenever you want.

Congrats, you just built a professional portfolio website using Gutenberg! I hope this guide helped simplify the process. If you have any questions, drop them in the comments. Happy designing!

I have attached a resources page above, curated by WordPress Bhopal, to cater for all needs related to your WordPress site. Also, to begin, you could always start with platforms like TasteWP or InstaWP.

We’ve all heard it—be the best parent you can be.

The one who provides, protects, plans. The one with the answers, the sacrifices. But somewhere along the way, in trying to be the best, did we forget what our children really need?

Let’s get this straight: your child doesn’t need the “best parent” with a trophy to prove it. They need a safe parent. A present parent. A human one.

We’re a generation trying to raise kids while healing from our own childhoods. A generation filled with unhealed wounds, trauma, and memories we rarely talk about. That’s why parenting has become such a loaded, sensitive topic. People joke about “new-age parenting,” roll their eyes at “gentle parenting,” or mock those trying to set emotional boundaries, but deep down, it’s coming from a place of wanting better. Of not wanting to repeat the same mistakes.

Be someone your child can come to—without hesitation, without fear, without overthinking how you might react. Being a parent isn’t just about getting them into the best school, paying their fees, buying them the best clothes, planning fancy trips, etc. Those are mere checkboxes. What matters more—what truly lasts—is the emotional support you give, the comfort you offer, and the safe space you create at home.

Don’t try to one-up other parents by comparing your sacrifices or playing the “at least I’m not like them” card. You’re not in competition. You’re raising a human being—a smaller version of yourself—who’s watching your every move to learn how to handle life. The world out there is already brutal; your child doesn’t need you to be another source of fear.

Having Kids to Fix Marriages? Let’s Talk.

In India especially, conflict in a marriage is often “resolved” by having a child—as a suggestion from well-meaning but misguided relatives. Just like how some parents hand a crying kid a phone to keep them quiet, families hand over this “solution” in the hopes that it’ll silence deeper issues. But what no one talks about is the burden that child grows up with.

So what about the child?

Ask yourself—did you ever sit down and talk it out? Discuss how you’ll parent this child? What kind of values you’ll pass down? What behaviors are off-limits in front of them? How will you resolve conflicts when they arise, not just with your partner, but also with your kid?

You don’t just bring a baby into the world as a distraction from your own issues. A child is not a pause button. Not a fresh start. They’re a living, breathing individual who will grow up shaped by the very environment you give them. You can’t expect magic to happen just because there’s now a kid in the picture. If anything, that child will silently carry the weight of the unresolved conflicts you never dealt with.

"You can’t pour from an empty cup. Take care of yourself first.”
— Audrey Lorde

These are the children who require therapy when they grow up. Because they don’t know what to do with their emotions, or whom to confide in. These are the ones who desperately try to find people outside the home to talk to—just anybody who seems kind—and we know even that sometimes doesn’t end well.

Read Rise like a phoenix: A story of burnout, anxiety & resilience.

Your child looks up to YOU. You can’t expect them to be mature from day one. It is your job to teach them, guide them, and show them the way—not the school’s, not the society’s. It starts at home. It starts with you.

The bare minimum is for you to Listen.

Not to retaliate. Not to defend. Not to correct. But to understand. Children aren’t trying to argue with you; they’re trying to express themselves. All they have is their innocence, their curiosity. And if every word they say leads to a scolding or a fight, you’re not teaching discipline, you’re instilling fear.

That fear creeps into every corner of their life. It conditions them to expect rejection and blame, even at home. Even from you. So much so that, god forbid, when something horrible happens to them, they might just stay silent… because “what if you get angry?” “What if you blame them?”

Children Mirror What They See

There’s a saying—girls don’t want to become like their mothers, boys want to become like their fathers. And I can’t stress enough how true this statement is. Mothers want their daughters to grow up strong, independent, and financially free because they’ve seen what it’s like to live in a world where men dominate. The last thing these daughters need is to see that same behaviour in their own homes, in their own father, brothers or uncles.

Read Your Guide to ‘Why Are Women So Complicated?’

No matter what you’ve done “for the family,” if you’re not there emotionally, the case rests right there. You don’t parent from ego. You don’t build fear. The world already has enough of that.

Don’t Build a Home They Want to Escape

Don’t create a home that your child is constantly trying to escape from. Don’t offer help like it’s a burden. Don’t make love conditional.

If they’re getting bad grades in school, you don’t go tell the teachers to remove them from extracurriculars. You sit with them. You try to understand where the gap is. You talk. You support. You listen. Assuming everything on your own doesn’t help.

What do you make of a child who is restricted from joining extracurriculars, is always the teacher’s pet, a first bencher, a good-to-average grader, doesn’t go out with friends, isn’t allowed on (unmonitored) trips, only wears what you approve of, always says no because that’s what they were conditioned to do? They grow up anxious. People pleasers. Easily Manipulated. Isolated. Unable to trust their own decisions. They say no to the world and even to themselves. Are they any good, for their own selves? Do you see an outlet? I hope you answer in negative.

Can you just… let them be?

Because in the end, it’s not your intentions, your sacrifices, or your status that shape your child’s life—it’s your behavior. If you can’t manage your own emotions, how can their first safe space, their home, ever feel whole?

Your child doesn’t care how much you earn or how many gifts you buy. They care about how safe they feel when they see you. About whether they can talk to you without judgment or not.

What you’ve gone through isn’t their fault but what you choose to pass down is indeed your responsibility.

So no, it’s not about being a perfect parent, the “best parent.” It’s about choosing to be a different one. The one who listens & believes in them. The one who holds space, not the one they dream of running away from.

I understand that everybody is trying to do their best, and that’s perfectly okay. It’s not like you learnt it too. Therefore, the idea is not to be the best—but to just be. No matter what level of parenting you’re in, even if your kids are already grown up, try inculcating the things mentioned above and see the results. It’s important—because however much one says or tells themselves to forgive, unhealed trauma is a reality. It stays. And one day, it may explode—and that won’t be the best way forward.

And truly, that’s not hard. That’s just being human with a thought. And you out of all, can do that for your child.

Shantanu (a close ally of Ratan Tata) shared in I came across a lighthouse, how Parizaad, a senior employee of Mr Tata, often reminded him: “You now represent Mr. Tata’s office. This means you will now always be seen through that lens. Every move you make, every word you say, every favour you ask for will be a move, word and favour from the office of Mr Ratan Tata. Never abuse the power of this office, never request favours just because you sit here.“

This wisdom applies to any leader, how your team conducts itself is a direct reflection of you & your endevour.

Having led numerous teams and being part of even more, I’ve learnt a few bits and crannies the hard way. As exciting as it is to build your own team and work towards a cause, it can quickly become overwhelming if you don’t have a clear approach to fuel and drive engagement.

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In today’s fast-paced world, the importance of being surrounded by individuals who are better than you or possess the potential you seek cannot be overstated. Starting a business already shows that you’re willing to take bold steps and challenge the status quo. But that’s just the beginning. The real journey begins when you have a team by your side, a team that drives the vision forward pushes your thinking and supports you when things get tough.

As the African proverb says, “If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together.” A startup embodies determination, unconventional thinking, and a desire to break the mould. But you can’t go far alone. Not doubting your capabilities, but making a point that having a strong team by your side can actually make a huge difference to thrive.

Let’s come to the question then- HOW to build a winning team culture?

Know the Goals

Not every team member’s goal will align perfectly with yours, and that’s okay! Some people are driven by personal development, others by gaining experience or financial growth. Embrace these differences because they foster diversity, creativity, and fresh perspectives. The key is to align individual ambitions with the company’s mission. When done right, these diverse goals contribute to one major objective: driving the company toward success!

Passion > Experience

Capital may be an issue for many startups, but passion is priceless. Believe in people who may lack experience but possess the hunger to learn. After all, isn’t that how you started? To follow the unconventional is a sign in itself. When you find people who resonate with your vision and values, their passion will fuel your company’s growth. Hire people who not only fit into the business but also connect with your deeper mission.

Communication and Trust are Non-Negotiable

Transparency and trust form the foundation of a winning team culture. Regular communication fosters collaboration, and when you trust your team, they become more invested in the business’s success.

• Share your WHY.

• Ask for feedback.
• Recognize wins, big or small.
• Give credit where it’s due.
• Encourage continuous learning.

A 2019 study by the University of Oxford’s Saïd Business School revealed that happy employees are 13% more productive. A little recognition and praise go a long way in fostering positivity.

When we start labeling people as “employees” and “employers,” the sense of ownership fades. The goal is to democratize decision-making and promote inclusivity. Encourage a “we” mindset, engage the team in finding solutions and instill a culture of ownership and self-accountability. This is often called “assumed responsibility”, when people take charge not because they have to, but because they feel responsible.

The 70-Hour Debate: Take a breather!

The world is going all cranky about Mr Narayan Murthy’s statement about working 70 hours a week. But please remember, when he said, “Work 70 hours a week,” it wasn’t just about the hours, it was about passion and dedication. Passion fuels progress, and there’s no perfect work-life balance when you’re building something that excites you. He’s proof of that! Find what works for YOU.

Backend Is as Important

While the hustle is real, so is burnout. Your team’s well-being is just as critical as their output. If you want long-term success, prioritize mental health, both theirs and yours. A thriving team isn’t just about efficiency; it’s about sustainability.

Bottom Line

Building a strong, supportive, and passionate team will not only make or break your startup, it will define your journey. A winning team culture doesn’t happen by chance, it is built with intention.

A friend tells me:

If you don’t build a culture, a culture will build on its own—and chances are, you won’t like it.

So, take a moment to reflect: How are you fostering trust, passion, and alignment within your team? The journey starts with you.

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A big thank you to Atharva Kulkarni for contributing his insights.

PC: Donald Clark from Openverse.

There has been an increasing norm of cruelty involving animals in the country. This societal rise in animal cruelty reflects a deeper issue, a lack of education, awareness, and empathy. Instances of pets being abandoned during the pandemic, severed heads of cows being found on the street to give a communal angle, strays being poisoned in residential areas, and dogs being beaten to death by some caretaker, have become alarmingly common. These are not isolated incidents but symptoms of a systemic & maybe a societal failure.

The report, State of Pet Homelessness Project, released by pet food company Mars Petcare India reveals that 69.3% of cats and dogs are homeless in India, which accounts for 19% of the global homeless pet population.  

Adding to the problem is the disconnect between legal provisions and their execution. Laws may mandate humane practices, but the absence of robust enforcement mechanisms renders them ineffective. For example, sterilization programs for stray animals are designed to control populations humanely, yet improper execution often leads to animals being relocated to unfamiliar areas or subjected to cruel treatment. Grievance redressal systems for animal cruelty cases are often either inaccessible or ineffective, leaving concerned citizens with few avenues for action. And even if, the law finds the guilty as charged, there is no robust system to deter them further. This blog post is not about accusing the system but calling for change because it’s beyond time. Rights, freedom, dignity are not just terms for humans but extend rightfully to these living beings too.

Judiciary‘s take towards compassion

The rights of animals in India have long been a subject of judicial interpretation, but the recent case from the Delhi High Court by the name of Dr Chablani v. Radha Mittal (further referred as the Chablani judgement), marked a monumental shift in the protection of animal welfare, especially stray animals.

The Chablani (2021) judgement aligns with past rulings that emphasize protecting the “life” of animals under Article 21 of the Constitution of India. The Court not only endorsed the right to feed stray animals but also acknowledged that such acts should be carried out in a manner that does not infringe upon others’ rights or cause harm to society. This judgment extended the fundamental duty under Article 51A(g)—”to have compassion for living creatures”—to include the “right to feed stray animals.” And also directed the framing of various guidelines for feeding stray dogs, recognizing citizens’ right to feed community dogs.

EPW’s article calls it rather a part of compassion jurisprudence, this ruling indeed reflects the evolving legal recognition of animals as sentient beings entitled to compassion and protection.

Landmark judgments, such as the Supreme Court’s decision in Animal Welfare Board of India v. Nagaraja (2014), have been instrumental in broadening the scope of animal rights in the country over time. Yet these rulings, while powerful, are of not much utility without a comprehensive legislative reform or effective enforcement. This ruling itself was sidelined by passing the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals (Tamil Nadu Amendment) Act, 2017. So yes, when we say there has been a tussle between the executive & the judiciary over time, it is a fact. But right now what we focus on is to find a middle ground.

Legislature: The Struggle for Stronger Laws

The Prevention of Cruelty to Animals Act, 1960 (further referred to as the PCA Act), remains the sole comprehensive legislation addressing animal welfare. However, its penalties, range from Rs. 10 to Rs. 50 for offences are outdated and insufficient to deter cruelty in modern times.

I used to take care of a stray, when one day the municipal corporation mini truck came and took it away. On protest, they told me they’d drop it back once the process of sterilization was complete. But to my dismay, it never returned. I went to the local office, spoke to multiple truck drivers, and called numerous places, but to no avail.

Under Section 11(1)(i) and 11(1)(j) of the PCA Act, it is illegal to relocate stray animals (also provided under ABC Rules 2023). As per various High Court Orders, all sterilized dogs must remain in their original areas. But how compatible is this on the ground?

“The police are disinterested in filing FIRs for animal cruelty because the penalty according to the PCA Act is still INR 50-100. Even if the matter reaches trial, the worst that the accused would need to do is pay Rs. 100, so they’d rather the accused pay the amount and walk out.,” as reported in the TOI.

Abandoning pet animals is a crime under Sections 3 & 11 of the PCA Act, as also reiterated by the Hon’ble High Court of Uttarakhand in the Alim v State of Uttarakhand (2017) case.

Another legislation that deals with the subject in discussion is the Bharatiya Nyay Sanhita (BNS), which is poised to replace the Indian Penal Code. Section 325 of the BNS emphasizes stricter penalties and criminalizes specific acts of cruelty, including abandonment and neglect, viz.,

Whoever commits mischief by killing, poisoning, maiming or rendering useless any animal shall be punished with imprisonment of either description for a term which may extend to five years, or with fine, or with both.

It still falls short on the part of criminalising sexual offences against animals, which by the way, has become a norm- heinous yet unpunishable. The delay in passing critical legislation like the PCA Amendment Bill (2022) which has been in discussion for years now, highlights a troubling inertia in addressing animal rights comprehensively. The proposed amendments aim to introduce harsher punishments and align Indian laws with global standards, but the delay risks normalizing cruelty as an acceptable aspect of daily life.

Way Forward

India’s laws must evolve to reflect the changing realities of our society. Stronger penalties are only part of the solution. The government must also invest in training enforcement agencies, establishing more accessible grievance systems, and educating citizens about their responsibilities towards animals.

We as humans have a moral responsibility, apart from the legal one of course, where providing and respecting these beings is an integral part of coexisting. Each life matters. This complements the broader discourse on animal rights, highlighting how societal attitudes and laws must work hand in hand to ensure the humane treatment of animals.

Our country has long prided itself on its compassion and respect for all living beings as part of our culture. Stronger legislation, better enforcement, and greater societal awareness are not just idealistic goals—they are the bare minimum required to create a society where animals are treated with the dignity and respect that they deserve.

Personally, I see only two ways which can be sufficient if addressed rightly – by the society, it is to instil kindness & empathy in your children & develop a little more sensitivity in general; and by the state, it is to create deterrence by providing for stringent measures against those who’ve forgotten the lesson on humanity already.

Have more thoughts on this? Please feel free to mention in the comments below.

Ratan Tata needs no introduction. He was India’s one of most respected industrialists, a business tycoon, former chairperson of Tata Trusts, a social entrepreneur, and a philanthropist, whose heart beat for dogs & whose brain always thought of ways to better the lives of people of this country. India lost its Ratan in early October of 2024. The world mourned the death of this visionary gent, as they called him a man with no haters. For Indians certainly, the passing away of RNT was personal. His unparalleled grace, wisdom, and humanity left an indelible mark on countless lives.

The day Ratan Tata, the extraordinary man this book revolves around, passed away, I felt an insatiable urge to understand him like really— not through media eulogies or fleeting anecdotes. I wanted it raw, real and close. And the moment this book landed on my doorstep, I knew it would be a transformative experience. And it was.

For the first time in what felt like forever, I read a book in one sitting. This wasn’t just about the brevity of the book but its magnetic pull. Shantanu Naidu, with his warm and witty storytelling, brings Ratan Tata to life—not as a towering business magnate but as a human being of rare charm and boundless wisdom. Every anecdote, every interaction shared by Shantanu drew me in deeper. It wasn’t just a reading experience; it was a journey, a privilege to get a glimpse of RNT’s life and the profound impact he had on those around him.

What sets this book apart is its sincerity. Shantanu’s perspective as RNT’s young friend brings a fresh, unfiltered lens to the narrative. Through his eyes, we meet a man who, despite his stature, embodies simplicity, humor, and an unrelenting passion for making the world a better place.

The book’s tone is conversational, almost as if Shantanu is sitting across. You’ll laugh at the lighthearted moments—like Tata’s quips about technology or his love for dogs—and feel an ache in your heart at the poignant ones. And by the end, you’ll find yourself wanting to emulate even a fraction of the grace and generosity this man possessed. At least I did.

Reading this book was not just enlightening but deeply moving. It’s rare to encounter a figure who inspires such universal admiration and love. Ratan Tata’s life is a testament to the power of authenticity and humility. It’s an undeniable fact, the world, especially India knows about. But glancing through Shantanu’s eyes, the exact moments and instances, just made me reflect on how much of an impact one individual can have, not through grandiose acts but through genuine care and connection.

When he is done with the haircut, he won’t just tip the hairdresser, he will tip the person who shampooed his hair, the person who got him coffee, the person who swept the hair off the floor. And then he will turn around to ensure I have done the same, before finally leaving. That’s how he teaches me things, in the best way possible: by example.

What made this journey even more heartening was knowing that Ratan Tata knew that people loved him. He deserved every bit of it, and Shantanu’s heartfelt anecdotes capture just how deeply he was cherished & respected by those around him.

I found myself wanting to relive every instance Shantanu shared, to listen to the music RNT recommended, and to feel the world through his lens. And while it broke my heart to realize that such a luminous presence is no longer with us, I’m grateful for the privilege of knowing him in some small way through these pages.

I Came Upon a Lighthouse is more than a book; it’s an experience, a celebration of a life well-lived. It’s a gentle reminder that true greatness lies not in what we achieve but in how we touch the lives of others and how much thoughtfulness matters. Shantanu Naidu’s words immortalize Ratan Tata’s spirit, making it a must-read for anyone seeking inspiration, warmth, and a glimpse into the life of an extraordinary human being.

This book will make you laugh, it will make you cry, and most importantly, it will make you pause and think.

He made me want to be perfect, made me want to be honest. When you’re in the company of someone as black and white as him, your greys get washed away.

RNT was a lighthouse, he is actually, and the day I can embody even a fraction of spirit this gent possessed would be the day I’d actually & in the truest form be able to pay tribute to him. He lives in the people whose lives he has touched. Indeed an epitome of wit & wisdom.

The Problem with Bulldozer Justice

Recently, in the case of In Re Manoj Tibrewal Akash (2024), the Supreme Court reprimanded the Uttar Pradesh government for demolishing a house under the pretext of “road widening” without issuing prior notice. The court found the government guilty of high-handedness, declared the act illegal and directed the state to pay ₹25 lakhs in interim compensation to the affected family. The ruling highlighted key constitutional and legal concerns surrounding the practice of bulldozer justice.

This judgment raises critical questions like,

Who bears the penalty? Ultimately, it is the taxpayers who pay for the state’s mistakes.

What is the accountability? Does it deter the authorities from resorting to such high-handed actions further?

Why bulldozer justice is not justified

Eroding Democratic Principles

Indian democracy is founded on principles like equality, the rule of law, and separation of powers. These pillars ensure fairness, transparency, and accountability. Bulldozer Justice undermines these principles by allowing the executive to take over the judiciary’s role, effectively bypassing due process.

This practice not only blurs the distinction between accused and guilty but also raises questions about the fairness of our justice system. The law follows the principle of innocent until proven guilty. Yet, these demolitions target, rather say, punish, not just the convicted but often those accused—without trial or evidence.

A Slippery Slope Towards Lawlessness

Is Bulldozer Justice any different from police encounters, mob justice or gunda raj? It rather represents a troubling normalization of lawlessness. Also, by punishing entire families who might co-own or live in the demolished properties—the authority, here, perpetuates collective punishment, a concept alien to any fair legal system.

This approach takes us back to colonial-era tactics, where oppressive measures dehumanized individuals under state control. As highlighted in Sukanya Shantha v. Union of India & Ors. (2024 INSC 753), such actions are relics of a time when dignity and justice were denied to marginalized groups.

Seeking Public Approval or Delivering Justice

There’s a saying in law that justice must not just be done, it must be seen as done. In my humble opinion, Bulldozer Justice is less about enforcing the law and more about garnering public support. It creates a spectacle that appeals to a section of the population for ‘they see justice happening,’ regardless of it bypassing constitutional safeguards.

In Re: Directions in the Matter of Demolition of Structures, the Supreme Court stated that the executive cannot usurp the judiciary’s role. The bench of Justice Gavai and Justice Viswanathan noted that demolishing properties without due process is unconstitutional and violates the rule of law. And that a judicial body alone has the authority to declare someone guilty and impose penalties.

Firstly, because the executive cannot declare a person guilty, as this process is the fundamental aspect of the judicial review. Only on the basis of the accusations, if the executive demolishes the property/ies of such an accused without following due process of law, it would strike at the basic principle of rule of law which is not permissible. The executive cannot become a judge and decide that a person accused is guilty and, therefore, punish him by demolishing his residential/commercial property/ies. Such an act of the executive would be transgressing its limits.

How justified is Judicial Justice

The greater the power to decide, the higher the responsibility to be just and fair. Every officer in the hierarchy of the State, by virtue of their position as a public officer or public servant, is accountable both to the State as well as the public. Hence, decisions must be guided by fairness, transparency, and due process.

A trial must be impartial, free from any external pressure or public clamour, and the legal order must be regularly maintained, ensuring the rights of all parties involved. An accused cannot be declared guilty or punished unless proven so beyond a reasonable doubt before a court of law. And it is equally important that the consequences of alleged crimes do not unjustly affect those who are not involved.

But wait, we do gain morality points here but what about the practicality?

Verdict of the Court

In the Manoj Tibrewal case, the court strongly criticized the actions of the authorities, describing them as “high-handed.” Justice Pardiwala emphasized the unlawfulness of demolishing houses without giving the owners proper notice or time to vacate.

In consonance with the observation, the Court ordered compensation for the victims and directed an inquiry against the officials responsible for the demolitions. It also issued a set of guidelines to ensure that demolitions are conducted in compliance with due process, including giving the property owner 15 days to rectify the situation before any demolition takes place. If the demolition violates any court orders, the responsible officers will be held personally liable.

Further, to prevent the issue of backdating, the Court looped in the role of the Collector/DM and emphasized the use of technology to streamline the process. Once the show cause notice is served, it must be immediately communicated to the District Magistrate via email. An auto-generated reply confirming the receipt of the notice will also be issued from the office of the DM. This measure ensures transparency and accountability in the process.

These actions by the Supreme Court represent a laudable move towards upholding due process and ensuring that no person’s property is destroyed without just cause and appropriate legal procedures. But this is not it. I’d rather call it the surface-level resolution for the problem is bigger.

The bigger problem

The court’s judgment emphasizes the need to adhere to municipal laws—ensuring proper notice, fair hearings, and timely demolition orders. Yet, the question is— can the system deliver on this promise, the system, the timing, the procedure? The sad truth is that our system, though built on sound principles, often falls short when it comes to implementation, making it all a vicious cycle.

Consider property disputes, which can drag on for 5, 15, or even 30 years. Or the plight of undertrials: despite clear legal provisions limiting detention periods, Indian prisons remain overcrowded, with undertrials constituting 75% of the incarcerated population. Is this justifiable in a nation governed by the rule of law?

The courts, too, are overwhelmed. In Delhi alone, 266,000 new criminal cases were added in 2024, pushing the backlog to 1.2 million—second only to West Bengal. Across India, over 66 million cases are delayed, many due to a lack of advocates, judges, and functional courtrooms. As submitted in the Lok Sabha, there are 21 Judges per million population, that too in accordance with the 2011 census.

Even everyday matters get ensnared in bureaucracy. Something as basic as changing the name on an electricity bill can require countless phone calls, visits, and perhaps even something more. When accessing basic facilities becomes this arduous, how can citizens be expected to trust a system that seems indifferent to their struggles?

The concept of the rule of law—justice that is fair, seen, and reliable—becomes meaningless if people can’t see it in action. It’s time to confront a bitter truth: due process, a cornerstone of democracy, often exists more in theory than in practice. If citizens believe their grievances will be met with indifference or delay, how can we expect them to approach the system with faith? Ensuring justice isn’t just about enforcing the law; it’s about upholding the promise of fairness, transparency, and timely redress.

I personally condemn any authority’s overreach, like in the present case because these acts, no matter how “swift,” undermine the foundation of the rule of law and give way to exploitation. Yet, it’s crucial to address that a significant portion of our population praises such actions, viewing them as a form of “speedy justice.” As brevity puts it, when law isn’t accessible, lawlessness becomes the norm.

The onus therefore falls on the rightful authorities to shift this narrative. By ensuring due process and demonstrating accountability, we can reaffirm the public’s trust in lawful, democratic processes.

No one can suppose that the executive will never be guilty of the sins that are common to all of us. You may be sure that they will sometimes do things which they ought not to do : and will not do things that they ought to do. But if and when wrongs are thereby suffered by any of us what is the remedy? Our procedure for securing our personal freedom is efficient, our procedure for preventing the abuse of power is not. Just as the pick and shovel is no longer suitable for the winning of coal, so also the procedure of mandamus, certiorari, and actions on the case are not suitable for the winning of freedom in the new age. They must be replaced by new and up-to date machinery, by declarations, injunctions and actions for negligence…. This is not the task for Parliament … the courts must do this

Nilabati Behera v. State of Orissa & Ors., (1993) 2 SCC 746

Conclusion

Due process is more than a principle—it is a promise. A promise that the law will serve the people, not just theoretically but in practice. When that promise is broken, the justice system loses its essence. What we need is not just rhetoric about fairness but a system that delivers justice consistently, transparently, and equitably. Without such evolution, the dream of a truly just society will remain just that—a dream.

As rightly observed, the Rule of law is integral to and necessary for democracy and good governance. Attempts to democratize without a robust legal system often lead to social disorder. In India, the principle of separation of powers serves as a crucial check-and-balance mechanism. It is supposed to ensure that no branch of government overreaches its jurisdiction, with the others holding it accountable. Each action of one arm of the government affects another, and therefore there is a crucial need to optimally utilise the check-and-balance system, as again, done in the present case.

For democracy to thrive, the legal system must uphold its promise to the people. Transparent processes, consistent accountability, and meaningful reforms are essential. The goal isn’t just to enforce the rule of law but to restore public faith in its ability to protect rights, uphold dignity, and deliver justice.

Only then can we build a system where justice is not just done but is seen to be done.

Dear Men, This Is how Half of the World sees you!

Reflecting on notions and the differences, the answer is yes, women are actually complex. But before you dismiss this as another “women and their hormones” argument, hear me out. Women are complex because we need to be. Life as a woman is full of experiences that demand heightened awareness and vigilance. This heightened sense of awareness, this complexity is something we inherit, passed down from one generation to the next. It’s not something we constantly talk about, but it’s there, quietly influencing the way we live, how we behave, and even how we dress. From childhood, we are taught to be cautious—be careful when walking alone, watch out for strangers, and make sure you’re not out too late.

I come from a place where interactions with men were limited. Growing up in a protective environment, I always felt safe within the confines of my home. But let me tell you, there comes a day in every woman’s life when she realizes that safety isn’t guaranteed, no matter how familiar or close to home she is. It could be something as small as a shadow lurking behind you, or something much worse, something I don’t need to spell out. What doesn’t make news could be a tailor misappropriately touching you while taking measurements, or a shop employee who won’t avert his gaze while you’re changing. These things are not isolated incidents—they are part of the shared experience many women have. The human mind left humanity long back. And so every now and then, we hear stories that become lessons, and we call them cases.

It’s easy to dismiss women’s concerns as “overthinking.” But the reality is, against the backdrop of overthinking—we analyze everything, every situation, from every angle, because we need to. When you’ve been conditioned to see the potential dangers, you begin to think about the “what-ifs,” the pros and cons, the outcomes, the possibilities, and how to protect yourself. It’s not paranoia—it’s self-preservation. 

And it’s heartbreaking because this pattern of behaviour isn’t exclusive to humans; it’s a pattern I’ve seen in animals too. When cows run away from the chasing bulls, or when female dogs are sexually assaulted by multiple male dogs, I can’t help but notice that the behaviour is the same. The cruelty, the objectification—it’s not just a human issue; it’s a larger, deeply ingrained problem. But this isn’t the subject matter for this post.

“Get me food!”

What’s worse is that it all starts at home. It’s in the way jokes are made about women: “Ye toh paraayi hai”, “Sasural mein aise kaam karogi”, “Roti banani hogi na”. These aren’t just casual remarks; they are seeds planted in young minds, teaching them that a woman’s value lies in her ability to serve, to cook, and to maintain the household. Just in one sentence, mostly a causal fun sake remark, one is made an outsider, and everything they’ve been doing for their ‘home’ is reduced with ‘the home’ not being theirs, with all their ability outside the house- overlooked.

The point I’m making is not that there’s anything wrong with doing household chores, no. But reducing a woman’s identity to just those tasks is a form of disrespect. People often make these jokes without understanding the reality. Women are expected to cook because they know or say have been taught, how to do it. Most men don’t even know how to cook beyond Maggi or tea. It’s not that men can’t learn—but it’s a conscious decision not to, which leads to a lack of respect for women’s efforts. My father (who knows how to cook, yes) believes that one should know the howabouts of everything, regardless of pursuing the activity in the future, and that makes sense but only if it is implemented in unison. But it’s the underestimation, the jokes, and the disregard that is utterly disappointing.

I’ve seen firsthand how small actions can make a big difference. A friend once told me how his mother had set designated days and roles for house chores, and it was his turn to wash the dishes. How subtly powerful! Such activities instil a sense of equality from a young age. It taught him respect—not just for women, but for the effort that goes into maintaining a household. Women’s need to prove themselves arises from the fact that they’ve been reduced, underestimated, and exploited for so long. It’s not just about being “overly complex” or “needing to prove a point”; it’s about recognizing that we’ve had to fight for our space, for our freedom, and for basic respect.

“Men know how men are!”

When they say, “Men know how men are,” there’s a certain truth to it, men know what level men can go. The society as a whole is not as civilized as it likes to think it is. The constant requirement of having a male companion when going around is another stark reminder of how unsafe the world can feel. Even on familiar roads, an ordinary walk can turn into an anxiety-inducing experience. Just last week, I went for a walk alone early evening when a man on a motorcycle pulled up next to me and offered me a lift. I refused of course and he went his way, but the fright in that moment was to the extent that I took a U-turn straight home. One other time, I was returning home on foot on an active road again, and a bike with three young men pulled beside and asked if I needed a lift. Out of reflex, I nodded my head in negative and they laughed with action showing that there wasn’t even space to accommodate me and went their way. I felt terrible, stupid, and dumb. Of course, it was a joke to them, but if I still remember this instance with dread after so many years, it wasn’t funny to me for sure.

They say "Think of yourself blessed if you don't understand why people do unkind things." Who's gonna tell them the amount of impact those unkind things, and the idea of 'not understanding' them have? 

Everything that I tell you is just the surface level, for I can’t even muster myself to share the rest. It’s sad that for every action posed by another, your mind blames you- it is your stupidity, your dumbness. It’s you. The fear I tell you is not just based on isolated experiences; it’s a culmination of years of living in a world where women often feel unsafe, vulnerable, and under threat because men chose to have “fun”. And yet, this isn’t a conversation we have openly enough. It’s a burden we carry, silently, constantly telling each other to have the courage to either speak up or just avoid.

“Be His Peace of Mind”

I’ve heard so many times that a woman “must be his peace of mind.” You see, it’s difficult to be at peace when your mind is constantly on high alert. If you truly want to be someone’s peace, be there for her. Ask any woman in your life whom you love if she’s ever felt unsafe, exploited, or fearful. I’m sure she will have stories to share—stories that are rarely spoken of, because they carry too much weight. But please know they need to be heard. It’s not about proving a point—it’s about understanding the reality that women live with every day. And I guarantee that when you listen, without trying to critically assess, you’ll be humbled seeing how aggravated the situation is.

Indian cinema has long glorified toxic relationships, subtly shaping societal norms. Maybe because Shahrukh set an unrealistic benchmark for even actors to portray characters on screen, haha. In contrast, the rising popularity of K-Dramas, especially among women stems from their portrayal of respect and consent—qualities often absent in real life (one may call me out for generalization here). It’s because, in those shows, respect and consent are not just ideals; they are practised. The men in those dramas are safe spaces, places where women don’t feel threatened or objectified. But, sadly, those types of men are few and far between in real life, particularly in places where authority and control are often confused with respect.

When a woman fears you, that’s not respect. Respect isn’t about control or making her obey your every word. It’s about creating a safe space where she feels valued and heard.

“Not all men!”

Not all men are like this, of course. But when any man passes by too closely, or when a vehicle slows down next to a woman, the fear is real. And in those moments, the question isn’t “not all men,” but simply, “a man.” In that split second, the weight of past experiences, of being conditioned to expect harm, takes over. This is the reality women live with. So, the next time you say she’s overthinking, remember: that’s her response mechanism, and it is not irrational.

And if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that men who are raised with respect for women, especially by elder sisters, tend to treat women better. For they’ve been taught by the women, who raised them, the importance of compassion and empathy out of other things. That’s the kind of man the world needs. It starts with respect at home. And if we can raise our sons to understand this, to share the responsibility of the household, to respect boundaries, and to listen without critical judgements, we’ll build a generation that not only cherishes women but actively works to make the world a safer, kinder place for them.

What you can do

Women’s lives are often marked by silent battles—of fear, of survival, of proving their worth. This is also about not trivialising the lives of women, lives which are traumatising in themselves. If you’ve read till here, and want to know the solution to this, please know it isn’t some grand gesture or sweeping reforms. It is self-reflection.

Ask yourself how you treat the women in your life. Make amends if you think is required. The idea is not to change the world all at once, for there’s always a problem to a solution. The idea is you make a life better, one at a time. And that will make all the difference.

While this judgment eases the financial burden on new enrollees, it has created a disparity that impacts those who enrolled just before it came into effect.

Exorbitant Enrolment Fees: A Barrier to Entry

Admission on the roll of advocates is a pre-requisite for any individual intending to practice law in India. Until this decision, the Bar Councils had been collecting fees under various heads like application form fees, processing fees, administrative fees, etc. The Court has now clarified that all these miscellaneous fees collected during enrolment fall under the definition of “enrolment fee” as per Section 24(1)(f). Therefore, the total fee charged at the time of admission cannot exceed the enrolment fee prescribed in the Act.

The Court observed that the practice of charging excess fees by State Bar Councils violated Article 14, the right to Equality and Article 19(1)(g), the right to Profession under the Constitution of India.

No Retrospective Relief: A Case of Inequality

However, one key limitation of the Advocates’ enrolment fee judgment is that it applies only prospectively. Hereunder the Supreme Court clarified that the decision does not require the SBCs to refund the excess fees collected prior to the date of this judgment (para 109). This may have avoided the administrative complexities of a retrospective effect but has left recent enrollees at a distinct disadvantage.

Take, for instance, the Bar Council of Madhya Pradesh, which enrolled around 400 advocates on July 29, 2024—just one day before the judgment. Each of these enrollees was required to pay the inflated enrolment fee of ₹23,000 as per the norm in the state. This difference is stark and has imposed an unfair financial burden on Advocates who enrolled in the same year, or even the same month, as those benefiting from the new fee structure.

This discrepancy raises significant concerns about inequality. It seems more like those who enrolled earlier to start practising or maybe not lose eligibility for the All India Bar Examination paid the cost of being on time.

While the Court’s decision to avoid retrospective relief is understandable to prevent administrative chaos, it is crucial to consider the unfairness experienced by recent enrollees who, due to the timing of the judgment, had no choice but to pay an exorbitant fee. This sudden disparity impacts both their financial burden and their standing within a profession grounded in fairness and equal treatment.

Looking Forward

The Supreme Court’s judgment on the advocates’ enrolment fee is a commendable step toward making the legal profession more accessible. However, for advocates who enrolled just before the ruling, the disparity is a genuine concern. An alternative solution—such as a partial refund or equitable adjustment—would have honored the intent of the judgment while also ensuring fairness for those who narrowly missed the revised fee structure.

In a profession built on principles of justice & equity, this judgment undeniably paves the way for a fairer enrolment process in the future, but addressing the current disparity will further strengthen its positive impact and uphold the values central to the legal profession.